This is so on point. An older man or woman dating a younger man or woman is not a child abuser just because their partner is younger. They can only be a child abuser if they abuse a child which an adult will never be.
It's amazing how many people just don't seem to be able to get that, adults are not children. It used to drive me crazy when an ex-girlfriend of mine, who was 7 years older than me, would get treated like she was taking advantage of me. For starters, I was in my mid 20s and yet she still was getting treated as if she was somehow taking liberties just because she was older. It was crazy.
People need to get out of their heads and stop this stupidity.