The case against her was a historic first of its kind — A German court recently found a woman guilty of sexual assault for poking holes in her partner’s condoms. The woman was handed a six-month suspended sentence, and the case was billed as historical due to it being the first ever to prosecute a woman for “reverse” stealthing. The 39-year-old woman…

So, I finally saw the viral TikTok video where a 46-year-old woman breaks down in her car because she’s about to have a scheduled surgery, and she doesn’t have a husband to look after her. Instead, she has her mother and her sister to take care of her. She says…

People need to stop saying otherwise — I watched a video the other day, I’m not going to share the video for reasons you’ll soon understand, but in it, a guy and a girl are having a conversation about rape fantasies in women. …

A relationship is only as successful as the need at the heart of it — knowing that need is the key to a successful relationship — Why do you want a relationship, and more importantly, what do you want from it? These are the profound questions of our age and are the most important questions to ask if you want to have a successful relationship. This point was really hit home to me a couple of…

The cruel trend of abusing those in age gap relationships is the opposite of a progressive society — For the entirety of human history, it has always made sense for an age gap in favour of men of about 5 to 10 years, and for couples to get together as young as possible. …

As a couples counselor, I hear lots of complaints from both men and women about their relationships. Obviously, every relationship is different, but over time, I have seen certain themes emerge in couples work. Whether your relationship is going well and you’re curious about potential pitfalls, or your relationship is…

All sexually reproducing animals have a common ancestor, women’s sex drive is linked to the seasons, men’s is not, and much more — The science of sexual reproduction and attraction is an ever-growing field, and the more we learn about it the more we learn about ourselves. Here are 18 facts about sexual reproduction and attraction in humans that you probably didn’t know. Disclaimer: this post goes all David Attenborough on humans in…

People like Andrew Tate gain their power from our educational system failures — I saw a clip of Andrew Tate on TikTok saying that the problem with the world is promiscuity in women, and how if women went around with the number of sexual partners they had had on their heads, many of the world’s problems around relationships would be ended. The implication…

Understanding why the male orgasm so often ends sex can help us improve everyone’s sex lives — Even since the female sexual revolution where the female orgasm has been “discovered” and given a chance to actually happen during sexual activity, it typically is sold as having to happen before the male orgasm — if we believe the film industry, at the same time. …

Pressure kills bedrooms, the simple phrase “don’t come” brings pressure into the bedroom, understanding the psychology of this has the power to improve your sex life profoundly — Every woman knows the story, you are just getting into a rhythm, it is starting to feel really good. Really really good. But just at this point, you can feel him getting that extra bit hard and you know what that means. In desperation, you say those fatal words “don’t…

Is it enough to go past the taboo? — Anal action is too much for some people. Others are warming up to the idea of trying it. Self Pleasure Tips For Humans With Penises It may make you confused. But the orgasm is worth it.medium.com Like vaginal and oral sex, it offers many benefits to partners who engage in the act. As social media delves more into our lives, couples have shared more. …

80 percent of people have suffered mental abuse, nearly a third of people have suffered domestic violence, sexual abuse is ripe, and much more — A massive problem with the modern world is the sheer enormity of the domestic abuse problem. Here are thirteen facts that show just how big the problem is. Nearly a third of people have been victims of domestic violence The consensus from countless studies and research is that between 30 and 35 percent of women have been physically assaulted by an…

Sometimes we blame others for our relationships ending when the fault is our own — I Iearned that the hard way — It’s a common trope to complain that men don’t help enough around the house, I had a father who was like this with my mother — or so I thought — and so I vowed to never find myself in a similar relationship situation. Yet, the first boyfriend I moved…

This article isn’t a jab at younger guys. — By Yvonne Peters-Adzimah Due to circumstances, my childhood was cut short, so I had to mature sooner than most people my age. I often know what I want; I go after it and put in the hard work, even if I’m scared. I had no time for childishness, mama wasn’t…

Men and women view kissing differently, men cheat more sexually, women cheat more emotionally, and much more — The subject of infidelity causes a lot of emotion in many ways and for good reason, it is one of the most emotionally charging elements of modern relationships. But with 18 to 25 percent of dating app users believed to be married or in a relationship, it is rampant. Here…

What else do you do when you’re young and single and alone in France? Long before I met my amazing husband, I’d heard about the scandalous parties of Cap d’Agde that my swinger friends swooned over. They lived for the summer days and nights spent in this infamous nudist swingers…

One of the things about dating someone older when you are young is that you learn a hell of a lot, here is what I learned — I started hitting the party scene when I was 17 and became quite popular — I basically just made all the right connections. …

Toxic femininity is real, and it needs to be addressed by everyone. — Most of the time, when I hear about men discussing toxic femininity, I roll my eyes. Boo-hoo, I muse, they are butthurt over having to pay for a date. Recently, I found a thread on Reddit’s AskMen that showed exactly how real toxic femininity was. More specifically, it was a…

Listen to me talk about this on a podcast here! As any follower of this blog knows, I am big into evolutionary and biological explanations for male-female interactions, even if these are not very politically correct. One thing I have learned over many years of working with couples is that…

A story of how not to expose your secret kink to the world — A friend of mine, I’ll call him Bob, and his wife, I’ll call her Kira, are in a rather unconventional open marriage. They both identify as heterosexual, but when it comes to sex have always been open to same-sex experiences. …