I’m working through my anger about my financial situation as a divorced woman. — The drive to get to my ex-husband’s new home takes me up a steep, winding road. I drive from the tiny, two-bedroom apartment where I live in an urban part of the city, into the lush foothills, past the vast, green stretches of land, and the baronial houses perched on…

It’s becoming increasingly popular to say this, except it’s not true, we do, just not in the way men do — If I had a dime for every person who said that women don’t use looks when selecting who to date, I would be rich many times over. I even often say it myself, except I always add the caveat, not in the way that men do. That is an important…

There are so many myths about what turns women on, here is what really turns women on — It frustrates the hell out of me how much misinformation there is out there about what turns women on. All this manipulation of information by both men and women alike does is mess up people’s sex lives. Here are 4 things people typically get wrong about what turns women on. People think the idea of the female orgasm turns women on and is super important — it does not and is not

It would be easy to blame expected gender norms for this i.e. the idea of the male breadwinner, but it turns out to be more complex than that — In a world that is obsessed with equality, especially wage equality, you would think that wage equality would be good for a relationship. However, based on the majority of literature I’ve read over my lifetime it’s not, wage inequality appears to lead to more successful relationships.

It’s popular to say that men will have sex with anyone and are promiscuous by nature, the question is is it true ? — It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to see that when it comes to men’s sex drives versus women’s, men’s is typically more “anytime anyplace anyone”, whereas women’s is typically more “right time right place right person.” However, even though it may seem it, this does not mean that men are…

All it does is hurt the sex lives of everyone — One of the most frustrating things about the modern world is the manipulation of studies to make them say things they do not. One such manipulation that has been particularly irking me of late, is the way people keep using the endless research that says that women on average like…

Women’s brains become streamlined, men’s testosterone levels drop, women learn to smell their baby, men become more problem-solving orientated, and much more — Everyone knows that parenthood is a massive life event that will profoundly change our lives. However, it will do more than just change our lives, it will also change us on a physiological and Neurological level. Here are the five main ways that parenthood changes us on a physiological and…

Discipline is not what most think it is, which is why so many struggle to be disciplined — How many times do you plan to behave a certain way and then find yourself lacking the discipline to do so? Whether it be planning to stick to a diet, a gym routine, changing careers, being faithful, whatever, the majority of people end up crumbling. But not all, some seem…

Yes, I want to fuck you. Here’s why… — Saying I want to fuck you is a bold statement, but it’s rooted in a lot of truth. The fact of the matter is that I do likely want to fuck you. For me, sex is sex. …

It was just one phrase but it all made sense. — My ex Buddy* had come by for a visit recently. He’s had a very rough year or two. Along with grieving the loss of several family members and close friends, he also had to deal with a very ugly relationship. When my husband and I opened the door, I couldn’t…

I like young men on a platter, too. — In 1997, I watched Leonardo Di Caprio in the hit movie Titanic. He was my celebrity crush. I was 22 and he was 21. When I married at 24, he was dating an 18-year-old. When I divorced at 29, he was dating a 20-year-old. When I remarried at 45, he…

Most relationships will have at least one of these dynamics, and understanding which can greatly improve your relationship — When it comes to relationships, it’s extremely rare for a couple not to have opposing traits of some kind. …

As consumerism rises, the family increasingly fades into the aeons of history — here is why — There has been a women’s movement over the last century which has seen a rise in the rights of women. It’s popular to say that this is what is killing relationships, that women have choice. This is a load of rubbish. Here is why, what is often forgotten is that…

It’s exhausting to be friends with a woman. — A decade ago, my cousin stopped talking to me. Before that, we texted each other daily. We loved books, so we met at a cafe in the bustling city of Kathmandu to discuss them. I got depressed after my mom died. She asked me to come live with her. It…

Have you noticed that the majority of people with controversial relationship podcasts, or other outlets like YouTube channels or social media, specifically the misogynist/misandrist type, aren’t actually in relationships themselves. No, seriously. …

The crazy story of how men and women evolving to desire to fix ever more relationship problems is what drove us to build our cities — If I said that fixing relationship problems was what drove the human race to build cities, most would think I was mad. However, fixing relationship problems is what inspired the human race to build cities. This is because at the heart of relationship problems is the desire to create a…

Men who marry younger women live longer lives than men in same-age relationships, and women who marry younger men live shorter lives than women in same-age relationships, but why? — It’s popular to say that, on a relative level, women who marry men the same age as them live longest, followed by men who marry women younger than them. It’s also popular to say that women who marry men younger than them live the shortest lives — relatively speaking.

Without the need to work out the best time to procreate, intelligence could never have been born — What if I said that every woman alive can thank the existence of men for their intelligence, and vice versa, every man can thank the existence of women for theirs, and all because we have to work out how to get along with each other, and mate with each other…

Sexual reproduction is a superpower, the reason why is mind-blowing — Why do men and women exist when we could just be asexual i.e. be men and women both at the same time? The answer is extremely complex, but to put it simply, asexual reproduction can only produce clones, and clones cannot swiftly evolve or adapt to an ever-changing environment, only…

Many clients I see, both male and female, do not understand much about the female orgasm. This confusion can lead to relationship and self-esteem issues, as neither partner knows what to expect or what is normal for women. Also, many women understand how to achieve an orgasm but have no…