#2 — They know the difference between self-confidence and an overinflated ego. — Confidence is sexy. So is respect — both to others and to yourself. We each have our own hopes and dreams and goals and plans. Each of us wants to feel heard, listened to, valued, and appreciated, and each of us wants to love and be loved, in some capacity. …

Unless you’re Scandinavian, you probably haven’t heard of the 2-duvet system — It’s next to impossible to be healthy, fit and productive if you haven’t had a good night’s sleep. As a long-term insomniac, I know whereof I speak. Earlier this year I came across an idea that changed my life by improving the quality of my sleep. One of those random-but-not-random…

It’s not necessarily a good sign in dating. — Have you ever walked into a room and felt so magnetically drawn to someone, that you couldn’t take your eyes off of them? Studies have shown that it takes only a few milliseconds for you to decide whom you find attractive. The “chemistry” you feel doesn’t come from anywhere. It…

At age 33, I’m digging into what it means to be “straight” — Unlike many people who identify as LGBTQ+, I have never been forced to reckon with my sexual orientation. As a heterosexual cisgender female, I’ve always liked the gender I was “supposed to” like. But now at 33, I’m questioning my straightness in a way that I never had before. Why I’m questioning my straightness. The…

Not everything they say on the internet is real. — Big penises are scary. Small penises are cute. But what makes them a true orgasm heartthrob is how you use them. Personally, I’ve never had a clear preference for a penis. I’ve had relationships with different types of people, I’ve seen different kinds of penises, I’ve seen them cooked to…

Where has this term been all my life? Moreover, isn’t it time we be honest about this issue? — Recently, I had a friend send me a link to a Reddit thread that struck a nerve with me. It was on a term that a guy coined — the “desirability ceiling.” The term itself is a phenomenon many people (of all genders) have experienced or felt. Honestly, this post…

It’s not the reason you think — It’s popular to say that what are termed “bad boys” get all the girls and what are termed “nice guys” don’t, it’s also popular to say that “nice guys” finish last. But the problem is nobody even really knows what a “bad boy” is defined as nor what a “nice…

The male libido is fuelled by the desire to pass on their DNA, the female libido by the desire to build a connection and then maintain it — Sex and relationships are big money — because virtually everybody is interested in them. Here are six facts and theories that you probably didn’t know about sexual desire and relationships. Disclaimer: facts and theories about sex and human nature are fickle and should always be taken with a pinch of…

If you know all of these, then you are probably a sexpert — One of the most important factors for having an orgasm is ignoring everything society and the mass media tells you that you, and your partner if you have one, needs to do to orgasm, and instead focusing simply on experimenting and finding out for yourself. Love it or hate it…

Relationships fail for many reasons, here are six reasons why the majority of modern ones are destined to do so — The success rate of long-term relationships in the Western world has been hovering around the 40 to 50 percent mark since around the 1970s/1980s. Though prior to the 1920s you were more likely to find a truthful politician than see a divorce — divorces just did not happen.

I never got the love I needed growing up and other women were an easy target for an attention fix. — I’m a female who’s into men. My current partner is male. I consider myself to be straight. However, at a certain point in my life, when I was younger, I tried to date women. The problem is I’m really just a heterosexual. So what happened when I attempted to have…

The world’s most popular subject is sex, here are 52 fascinating facts that you probably didn’t know about sex — As the world becomes increasingly liberal-minded, we are learning more and more about sex. Here are 52 fascinating facts about the subject that was once unspoken. The record for the most female orgasms is 134 in one hour, the male record is just 16. A single sperm contains 37.5 MB…

If you struggle to come, this story is for you. — I was a legal adult the first time I had an orgasm. My college boyfriend bought me a vibrator, and within a few minutes, boom! I realized what I had been missing out on my whole life. Coming for the first time was a big boost in confidence. I felt…

Yes, I just wrote this. We need to talk about this one more. — Oral sex is great — amazing. The appreciation we watch in porn hardly transcends into our bedrooms. The girls who truly worship the dick are unicorns — much like the girls who enjoy anal: Do you like women to give oral sex? The short answer is: No, not at all…

Dating in the modern world is not easy — here are seven reasons why — Anyone who has experienced dating in the modern world will be able to attest that it is certainly not easy. For the majority of men, the challenge is netting a date in the first place, for the majority of women, netting a date is easy, but that is the challenge. …

Here is how you can get over the insecurity that prevents you from good sex — Vaginas are often associated with fruits. Tasty, sweet, and candid. Girls on social media recommend you to drink a lot of pineapple juice to keep your juices sweet and sensational. I hate the fruit image — that’s why I have never used one for my stories here (pictures like the…

We all want our opposites, here is why — Ever wondered why some people are only ever attracted to people who are the dead opposite of them? …

Overpopulation is affecting our lives in many profound ways, here are three ways it may be affecting our relationships — Prior to the invention of agriculture, so around 9000 BC, it is believed that the human population size had been pretty much static at around 3/4 million for tens of thousands of years. But from the year 5000 BC, it started doubling every five hundred to a thousand years, going…

In this age of sensitivity about consensual sexual activities, where is our concern about the consent women must obtain from men? (Photo by Sam Burriss on Unsplash) By Dr T J Jordan When he was seventeen years old, my dear male friend was raped by a middle-aged woman. She approached…

Ever wondered why people create catfish accounts, here are twelve reasons — Over the last several years or so, as a result of curiosity, I have spent more time than I would like to admit trying to connect with catfish accounts with the intention of finding out why they do what they do. Here are the twelve main reasons I have found. To deceive people into sending nudes